Saturday, June 28, 2008

Being Inside Marriage

Marriage vows are like a New Year’s resolutions easy to make and impossible to live up to.

Resolutions such as;
  1. Will respect each other.
  2. Will trust each other.
  3. Will care for each other.
  4. Will stay together through thick and thin.
  5. Etc. so on and so forth blah blah blah.

Like a resolutions these would only last for a couple years (5 years maybe) of being together and ends up resolutions gone forever.

So what’s the secret really of lasting happy marriage? A pair of eyes wide open.

A pair of eyes wide open to see that nothing in this world is perfect. Marriage is not just about love, it is about seeing your partner in all aspect. Seeing beyond good looks, happy face, loving and caring ways but seeing when in total ugliness , seeing in time of distress, in time of confusions, seeing when uncaring , and seeing in times of strays or infidelity; because seing from this point is the only time you understand what’s being inside a marriage is. A pair of wide eyes open is the only way to see and understands.

What’s your resolution??
To have A pair of wide eyes open.