Trully, there will come a time in your life when you will become in love with someone. So in love with that someone ... for this person you would do anything, even the craziest thing or even the things that normally you would never would have do. In doing this you'll never would have think twice. And you'll aked yourself why??? ...you have no answer. You'll try to figure it out, your whole life to understand how this person can affect you so much, but you'll never find out why. And no matter what, you'll love this person without regret... for the rest of your life..."

You, I and Us

In marriage we have to remember that in order to survive we have to learn how to maintain ourselves. We don’t have to change ourselves just for the other; if we do that we lost ourselves forever. When “I” meet “you” we become “US”. I and You is a separate person with his/her own identity/individuality. US is born because of the attraction that bound You and I together. The sharing become “us”. As we go on with our lives together we gain more and more of “us”. We are still I and you and we should continue that. It should never disappear nor forgotten as we develop “us”. Never give up the I and You because if something happens and you lose the "US" you still have "you" to go onto.

So Near YET so Far

"Better by far i will remember and be glad,
than by near i will remember and be sad... "

Despite of ? or In spite of ...

On an Wedding ceremony I recently attended a message from the priest strikes me deepest to my heart. During his sermon the priest says “you two from now on, you have to love each other not despite of but in spite of . And that struck me and keep me thingking , what’s the difference ? it looks the same to me .

Despite of - is a very negative thing to say to a person. It is more confine to something like

Despite of your looks…
Despite of your attitude…

But

In spite of – it brings something positive about your outlook. It connotes everything “entirely “.

In spite of having it all wrong I still love you…
In spite of treating me like that I still care..

So, now starts everyday by telling your partner not despite of but in spite of.

Being Inside Marriage

Marriage vows are like a New Year’s resolutions easy to make and impossible to live up to.

Resolutions such as;

1. Will respect each other.
2. Will trust each other.
3. Will care for each other.
4. Will stay together through thick and thin.
5. Etc. so on and so forth blah blah blah.

Like a resolutions these would only last for a couple years (5 years maybe) of being together and ends up resolutions gone forever.

So what’s the secret really of lasting happy marriage? A pair of eyes wide open.

A pair of eyes wide open to see that nothing in this world is perfect. Marriage is not just about love, it is about seeing your partner in all aspect. Seeing beyond good looks, happy face, loving and caring ways but seeing when in total ugliness , seeing in time of distress, in time of confusions, seeing when uncaring , and seeing in times of strays or infidelity; because seing from this point is the only time you understand what’s being inside a marriage is. A pair of wide eyes open is the only way to see and understands.

What’s your resolution??
To have A pair of wide eyes open.